is it persuing to give W a comliment

[paul19510]

thanks. I didn't do it. she's getting "darker" and using much less contact as the days progress. is that part of this process as well? is gets worse before it gets better? I just keep working on me. also she was the "distancer" all thru the marriage. So I don't think she cares much if I pull away. I guess we'll see. great advice. I am just moving around in the shadows and going about my business. She doesn't even come into the house anymore. she did during the first few days. but I played it cool and now she doesn't anymore.

Friends tell me she's very tired and upset by all this. I only see a cold person when I see her. And that is getting less and less each day.