Some people will continue to love you, no matter what you do. Others will refuse to think well of you, regardless of how many heroic or even saintly moves you make. There is then, little point in striving too hard to satisfy either of these audiences. At the risk of comparing you to a politician, in search of the floating vote, I must point out that you are currently looking for a particular form of support. Go where you obviously stand the best chance of getting it. If that doesn't work, go where it may just be possible. But don't waste time on hopeless causes.
