Coming Back To Life

[BrightFuture]

I had a session with the DB coach this morning. I was half hour late (for some reason I written the time wrong), so we only had about 20 min. I consider it pretty much wasted money. Well, I only have myself to blame. I gave my update and the coach tried to give me some advice. It is pretty much the same I’ve heard last time.

I need to do something different to move the sitch. He suggested to open a Facebook account for me, just like he suggested in our previous session. The purpose would be to put the updates of my exciting life to make my H more curious. Well, H doesn’t have Facebook. The chances that he would be looking are so small, that I think it doesn’t warrant to do it for me. I don’t have Facebook and was not planning to open it.

There was nothing else that the coach told me. I tried to ask coach’s opinion about what the chances are for H to reconsider. He said that it is hard to expect for the sitch to move without trying something different. I don’t know what I could do different besides just filing for D. I’m at a loss.

I told the coach that I think that H needs to live though his journey right now. I said that since there is no permanent OW (I’m think there is not), he is still looking for his perfect match and haven’t discovered the reality yet. The coach agreed with me on that.

He also kept asking me what did I do different during the summer to cause H to become more friendly in his e-mails. I didn’t know what to answer. Besides going to the vacation home a lot and having all kinds of activities over there, I didn’t do anything different. And he didn’t even learn the news about my activities until later. Coach also asked me what I think I need to do different to cause some interest from H. I didn’t know what to answer again. If I knew, I would not be calling the coach. I was hoping that he would have some suggestions for me, more than just the Facebook.

So, I’m kind of disappointed about the session. The only good thing was that be verbalizing some things, I discovered that I understood a couple of thing for myself. I will update in the next post. This is getting too long.

Pud, thanks so much for stopping by, I will answer to your post next.