Advice from WAW's?

[PERSEVERANCE]

I was married 17 yrs. divorced 2 years.
2 Teenage boys ( live with me). My wife left me for a boy half her age.
Just starting to speak again... Had coffee, we cried, held hands and hugged briefly.
She's coming over for dinner tonight.... Said she doesn't know if she can reconcile, she is "processing" everything.
We are also in the middle of an expensive custody battle that she will eventually lose...Worried about being used and manipulated.
God, I still love her though