Noooooo...no one is, nor should they use the trigger as an excuse. Hell, I was a horrible husband, I sucked. Without MLC she would have later and rightfully so divorced my POS but.
The theory of MLC is that almost all of them have a trigger, some sort of 'button' that starts the avalanche process.
Your crappy behaviour is just a bunch of snow among more snow.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
