Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Do I have unreal expectations for that person?

Is it their sh!t and I need to lovingly give it back to them?

Both of these you control because you accepted them both.

Which is it? Or both?

Question for you....



Thought about things some more. This is what I've accepted at this point. New JF understands that it was unrealistic to expect either one of us to have the tools to deal with the situation. Neither of us were ready for that moment in our life.

Control the controllable. Owning my own part of the failure, forgiving myself for lack of action, and learning from the experience.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."