PIB...
Hi you don't know me at all....but I just finished reading your latest post and had lurked off and on way back when...you are really AMAZING. You have come so very far and seem so clear headed about yourself and future. Very impressive. You probably don't realize, with all your honesty, how many of us your encourage and help along the way.
If you have a moment visit my post in piecing "being in neutral...." and I would welcome any advice as I am facing the "spearation."

Your overview of MLC was great help as well....I may re-read it to figure out just where my H is....maybe somewhere between depression/withdrawal....the anger has subsided now for a while. We even saw glimples of his ole self over the holidays.

Thanks again and blessings.

Mooka