Thanks for posting the update T! It's really good to see where this has come. I remember your stories from Christmas 2012. That was around the time I joined the board. Your H has come a long way, but he is going to continue to hold on to her until the end. That fear of dropping all of the ropes and being left standing there with nothing has to be one of their biggest fears. But he is seeing the light for sure. Seeing what he has and what he could lose. Before I don't think he could see anything, except his hand in front of his face. I have such high hopes for you and hope it will be soon. Sometimes they have to face really losing everything before they realize they have to drop all the other ropes to be able to hold tight and firm to the one that leads to you and the family.
Oh, and I was the one who coined FT. One of my finest moments
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17