Leave all the emotion and hurt feelings out, this is business and that's what she wants to get done. She doesn't want rationalizations, she wants to get to an agreement.
KdoGS, I used to write emails very similar to what you wrote above, deep down it's trying to manipulate emotions-there's your 2x4 from my own experience.
Thanks, and thanks for showing what I should include, that really helps.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14