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[Ambivalent]

Why would you feel dirty about that? After all, look at what he's been doing to you and you only just discovered in the last few weeks some of the things that he's been doing

It comes from feeling like I am unfaithful. One doesn't speak badly of their spouse, it is just so unseemly. Writing here is different, because we aren't able to gossip, or make something public. It isn't honoring what we had. It is difficult to put my finger on it. I just do.

If you knew my husband's habits and how much of a car/house slob he is, you wouldn't say this. He dumps things all over the place, just like my oldest daughter. I would never describe him as organized, or even sloppy. I'm sure this is another reason the finances are like this.


I was posting during your post time, so I did not mean to dismiss the post.