The Brave Man

[Truegritter]

Guilt is born from a responsibility that you believe was yours and failed. This can only occur if you believe yourself responsible.

I always ask myself is it truly my responsibility? Or am I rescuing or trying to fix someone? Should this person hold me responsible for this? Should I hold my self responsible?

Own your sh!t and yours only.

Anger and resentment is born of a responsibility you feel was owed to you that someone failed.

Same applies. Does someone really owe you that? Should this be something I am responsible for myself? Or am I being dependent on another person?

Do I have unreal expectations for that person?

Is it their sh!t and I need to lovingly give it back to them?

Both of these you control because you accepted them both.

Which is it? Or both?

Question for you....