"I have seen similar situations to what you're describing, and often the person/ people being evicted have done it to themselves through wreckless spending, failure to plan for the future and poor work ethic."
That is very astute to pick up on this AS. You are correct in the way the kids have hurt themselves financially with their wreckless/careless spending habits. Unfortunately or not, I tend to have a heart when it comes to descent people especially family hurting. Whether caused by them or not, when children are involved it tends to be painful to see or hear about. Especially this time of year.
It's very hard to stay out of this kind of drama. I'm sure you can understand that. Additional drama very recently for them is a hospital stay and a vehicle repo. I cant stand seeing people hurting in this way. You are right though, they need to learn but at what cost I guess is my point.
I am trying to not be critical of my WAW regarding this matter. But given how I knew her in the recent past, this current treatment of her daughter and grandchildren appears to be the "new her". IMHO, it's not the normal way you deal with loved one's. But as I fully understand things today we are not talking about the same person I once knew.
With that said, personally, yup I am doing great Cadet, thanks. I am indeed working on a new path in life and it feels good to be doing so. What it will eventually look like I cant be sure as yet. I do know however, as I continue working on me and learning it is and will be a whole lot better than where I came from.