Summer 2008 - W's father (who SA her) dies. Summer 2009 - EA OM1 Summer 2010 - Break off with OM1, things "okay" Spring 2011 - Deep, deep depression, feels failure, doesn't know who she is. Summer 2011 - Starts playing online in adult hook up sites Sept 2011 - Multiple EA's occurring, BD#1 December 2011 - Anger stage begins in earnest, BD#2 Feb 2012 - PA begins, multiple EA's via internet/phone, continuing through year, OM1 back in pic, probable other PA's or one-nighters Jan/Feb 2013 - Ending of some PA and EA's Spring 2013 - BD#3, stated OM withdrawal Summer 2013 - Wants to wait on D, some dipping back into replay behaviors, but I'm not too sure of the extent. Fall/Winter 2013 - Still in house, still "I don't know" about R or D. ....
-Death of a family member.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm