Planet, can you spend some time with D4 in her own home? There have been a lot of changes in this little girls life and she has no control over any of the craziness brought about by the adults surrounding her. Maybe if she gets to stay in her home and spend time with you it might work.
I know you and W have a very contentious R right now and that might not be possible. What other things might you do to make this easier for D4? Is there some place nice, like a park where you could go for a short time and then gradually increase the time, visit by visit. Make sure that D4 knows that she can go home anytime she wants.
Good luck, this is difficult.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
