I got home from work yesterday to find a Christmas card from the last boss I had in the UK. We exchange letters every year at Christmas as a way of catching up with what's going on in our lives. I had deliberately mailed my card and letter to him early in the hopes of it getting to him before he mailed his to me and it worked as the card was addressed to just me and my son.

It was a comment he made in his letter that made me wonder how many other people had the same thought. He commented that he had always thought I was too good for my H. It didn't bother me; it just made me think. I've had a few of H's coworkers say the same thing.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks