TV, I'm glad you returned to post an update. You and your family have come a long way and I'm glad you decided not to allow his behavior to bring you down last evening. I'm sure the children enjoyed seeing Santa and eating out. I've always loved the Polar Express.
I'm very sorry he's still showing signs of mlc behavior, but I do hope things will get better in 2014 for you and your family.
Enjoy the holiday season w/your family and friends. Live your life to the fullest.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.