Hi MS, it is good to "see" you here again. I'm really proud of you for setting boundaries that you needed to in order to make you feel good about yourself. I think creating and maintaining self respect is possibly the most important part of this process - it will be with you no matter what happens with H.

I think you did great - I don't think that all WASs need to follow all of the 37 rules exactly - we need to tweak them to fit our ever changing sitches. And we can't be expected to live in the dark forever. Now you have a better idea of where your H is right now, and you were able to set appropriate boundaries to protect yourself.

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14