So I received my mail from my stbx today. Nothing more than the letter she emailed me about was sent and as a side note her return address was her sons. She has had her own place now for 6 months yet she continues to hide her address from me. She knows very well I am not about to go knocking on her door some 500 miles away. It simply amazes me that she feels she has to hide her addy from me. It's completely ridiculous and somewhere in her mind she has to know this.
Something I was told by her daughter is rather surprising/shocking to me. Wife's daughter and her husband with two children are having a rough time right now and are being evicted from their home just days before Christmas. Yup, it's unreal but true. So they asked her mother my WAW if her and the 2 kids could come stay with her for a few weeks while daughters husband gets things straightened out. Unbelievably WAW told her daughter NO. That she would pray for a miracle for them.
Her daughter is 1400 miles from her, these are her grandchildren and WAW tells her daughter no with excuses. Stuff like not enough food to be able to feed them etc etc. Oh yes, I have been helping them where I can but to have your own mother deny you is sad and unreal. Daughter told me WAW had quit her job recently as again she couldn't get along with the other employees. This is definately something she has a problem with. This is like the 5th job she has quit since I have been with her because she cant get along with others.
So her son has taken a pay cut and having his company to pay her. She apparently watches the twin granddaughters a couple times of week. Her daughter loves her mother (my WAW) and they get along great. But at this time of need her Mother and well to do Brother are turning their backs on them. I am at a loss to figure out what is happening.
I did not want or need to know all this about WAW but with family in trouble and reaching out it's only natural to hear about whats going on. For WAW to turn her back on her own daughter and grand children is wayyy beyond belief. Now that I have been informed about all this, I swear for the life of me I can't figure out WAW. AS she prepares to fly to her other son's family for Christmas she is leaving her daughters family behind pure and simple.
At this point, I am relieved that I have not had to deal with WAW. I plan to keep it that way!
