Help! Got this email from W this morning. Somehow she thinks that she is going to move me out of the house?
This is what she sent- "Thank you for sharing that with me, however I cannot think of an appropriate way nor do I feel it is appropriate for me to share my feelings with you. Moving forward, I will continue discussing matters in a civil manner.
With that being said, I wanted to cast light on the fact that the car I've had for 6 days is now immoble. It broke down on me while driving home tonight on the road after a really long day at work, someone had to come get me, and the car had to be towed. I am safe, but I'm sure you can imagine it was quite terrifying and extremely frustrating. I am going to have a lot of expenses coming up with needing to buy a car in the next week and then all the little things adding up (table, chairs, tv, etc). Not to mention trying to live on a X salary again.
Moving on to your previous emails... it appears you are really focused on the numbers (understandably). Based on my overall calculations, when all is said and done, you will be walking away with more than 50/50 in terms of finances because you will have all of your investments and more than you came into the marriage with. Selling the house right now would be a wash (any profit going towards closing costs and realtors). With me refinancing the house in my name (or assuming the loan if possible) and you keeping all of your investments (IRA, 401K, and Roth- all things you were able to better contribute to due to my income), you will end up better off financially.
Speaking of the house, I would like to discuss your living arrangements. In the spirit of hospitality, I wanted to give you the option of staying in the house till the end of February with the understanding that you will continue to be responsible for the costs associated with living there during such time (house payment, water, electricity, cable, internet, phone, trash, insurance, etc.). This timing would work out for me as well with refinancing.
I am beyond exhausted right now with the day I've had, but I wanted to let you know I got copies of the dentist receipt you were asking for. I will make copies and email it to you tomorrow."
I mean, I guess at some point I'll have to send her the real information regarding the finances. Thoughts on how to respond?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
