Thank you for visiting! Yes, he's so wonderfully sweet and I want to kick myself for not recognizing it pre-separation!
Everyone kept telling me that Pisces are super-sensitive. I just did not see my Husband that way.
DBing has really opened my eyes up to how sensitive he truly is!
So, last night, he called his mother to help her with some computer issues she was having.
He told her that he's looking for a job closer to home, cause he hates his job. He works his butt off, and his reward is, "This place looks like cr*p. You must work harder!"
Her suggestion:
Put your resume on the web and say that you are willing to relocate.
So, when he tells me she said that, I get upset.
He asked me what was wrong, what I was thinking. I said, "I have nothing positive to say."
He asked again.
So, I told him, "Either she loves moving every 2 years and thinks everyone else does, and is just being clueless...or she's trying to split us up."
He said she isn't trying to split us up. She loves moving all the time and assumes everyone else does too.
He said he just didn't feel like arguing with her or having a long discussion. He was hungry and tired and had JUST gotten home. So, what he said makes sense. I can see that he'd just say, "Ok Mom." and that's all.
So, I stressed again, that I'm in this town to stay. That this is my house and that I enjoy living so close to my parents, and that I'm going to do everything I can to buy our house from my parents. And that I want to live here forever.
I told him I know that this wasn't his first choice on where to live, but that he moved here to be with me. (So, now she's encouraging him to take action towards moving away or forcing me to move with him. Grrr.)
He assured me that he knew that I want to stay in our town, in our home with all my heart and soul.
So, then this morning...he was talking in his sleep. And he asked, "Am I in (our town) with my love?"
I told him he was and snuggled closer.
Later on, after we really woke up, I asked him about his talking in his sleep.
He said he'd had a dream in which he was travelling all over. He was mad because he just wanted to get home and it was such a long drive away.
