I keep thinking of giving my W a compliment. We don't talk much now that we are separate and I keep thinking of the same thing today but have not acted on it. I didn't really tell her how proud I am of her, but I guess at this stage, I'll have to wait until she contacts me to bring it up...? agree?
Why do you want to give her a compliment?
What are you hoping to accomplish?
If it is to drive her further away then it might work.
Sometimes just the sound of our voice can be pursuit.