It is possible, but it is still up to your W to WANT to make that choice. She has to take the initiative to get things rolling rather than having you do the heavy lifting.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER