I have a question? My H puts up a wall when we fight. I've almost always been the one that's had to basically kisses ass, hug, etc. For him too respond or let go. So I'm wondering if I do the no contact which obviously I don't do very well is a good thing. He tends to forget when you're not around. Like friends etc. He's not one to contact them. he's more of the you have to invite him over kind of guy. And obviously he needs emotional contact if he has emotional affairs via text mostly. So I'm wondering if I should continue contact with him but the friendly upbeat and someone who would want to talk to? I know that's not exactly one of the rules.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
