Well, after 10 years of marriage, I get an email of all things saying that he isn't coming back and wants to divorce. I 100% expected that he wouldn't want to attempt to work on things with me since I haven't heard one single peep from him since he left. Its still a shock anyway and it still saddens me. I'm not sure why he waited until a week before Christmas to tell me this.
I guess I can use my holiday time off to start cleaning up the house and getting rid of things and preparing it for a sale. I don't even want to be in the house right now. I just want my own apartment filled with only my own things.

I haven't yet replied to the email, I want to make sure my reply is calm and collected.

Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis