I have the exact same feelings and while I see the point in MrBonds advice it will be very difficult for me to actually carry this out in real life.

I wouldn’t even know what to say, but maybe I will get there one day...

You are definitely not alone with this!

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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