Wonka: at first I couldn't think of anything. But I think it was 2 things: his aunt, whom he was close to, died in the Spring. Then we had our 20th anniversary in September, right after I had yelled at him on vacation in August - some of the descriptors say a precipitating event can be an important anniversary. I also recently had an aha moment where I discovered I have been going through perimenopause, which undoubtedly contributed some to his feeling that I have been on-edge somewhat in the last year.
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14