Cadet: Thanks.

Wonka: at first I couldn't think of anything. But I think it was 2 things: his aunt, whom he was close to, died in the Spring. Then we had our 20th anniversary in September, right after I had yelled at him on vacation in August - some of the descriptors say a precipitating event can be an important anniversary. I also recently had an aha moment where I discovered I have been going through perimenopause, which undoubtedly contributed some to his feeling that I have been on-edge somewhat in the last year.


M 20 yrs
me 47
H 51
s11
d8

BD 10/8/13
H Moved out 11/30/13
OW slept over with children Dec '13
OW moved in w/H Jan '14