Originally Posted By: nit84

I asked her if she was going to use the Christmas decorations in the living room. I told her I would like to buy a Christmas tree I would pay for completely myself if she agreed. If not and she wasn't going to use them then I would like to put them in the attic and clean the living room.

She hasn't responded yet. Not sure if I should have asked to do this.


Next time don't ask her if you can do something, just tell her what you're doing. So you could have said "I'm going to buy a tree and decorate it using the decorations in the living room, let me know if that's a problem." That way if she doesn't respond then she has no reason to gripe when you proceed.

Originally Posted By: nit84
Although I am not going to file for D. Should I continue to move in that direction somewhat? For instance, having her car turned over to her name only and having her get her own insurance.


Not sure if you have an L, but this is really an L question. I've read that in some states you CAN'T take your W off your insurance without her consent if she's already on it, even if you're S'd.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57