DIG DEEP DIG ON

[Ambivalent]

Thanks Reaching, yeah under in mortg. , owes back taxes, daughters apt. and college, other daughter always asking for money, I'm the "easy one to get rid of" so he thinks, wants to spend and spend some more.

What I don't get is that I become another "bill" or debt.

It may be better to downsize, and he needs to be held accountable and help with the costs of move, packing, all the money upfront on leasing, so I can get in. It may be better to do it while I don't have a job yet. That way I have time to get things sorted out.

I'll find out.

He wants to alleviate guilt and the only way he sees is by doing things fast and setting me up.