Bh I'm sorry that I'm reading ANOTHER man's story of how his wife left him. But if there is one thing I've learned, its that there is always a reason and that it is never too late to work on that reason. Unless you decide its too late, or start shooting yourself in the foot as MrBond pointed out.

Stay the course. You have no idea how this will unfold, and that is a good thing. It means things could improve and you COULD have a better marriage.

Focus in yourself right now. You need to get back on your feet because no one can fight laying down...

Get up. Get up and fight!

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017