I reread this today and it made me think about the "red ball" analogy that uR talks about in one of her threads.

You know the one. The red ball that was so heavy to carry...and she realized it was her H's ball...not hers. So, she put it down and picked up what was hers to carry, instead.

I thought of this, T2, when I read AJ and Mach's comments.

Be careful....and don't carry stuff around that isn't yours to carry!