Grit that is it "should" and "must" words are absolutes. Those works will cause u problems. What you are doing is called negative thinking due to irrational beliefs. The belief that you have to achieve otherwise you are no good. Is that a rational way to live? When you think in either or ways it takes away choices. We can never achieve perfection.
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“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
