Couldn't you ask your attorney for a potential time line. I know a lot must depend on when the parties get their information turned over.

It sounds like you need this to be done for several reasons. To me, this is the true limbo. You're not Md you're not Dd, she's still "occupying" an apt that's a source of contention, she's living elsewhere.

Have you thought about moving your thread to Surviving the Big D? It's a active board and they have a very different viewpoint that might be beneficial to you.

Read over there a bit, see what you think.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss