Originally Posted By: T1000
I was gearing up to send her the financial details this week so we could start hammering it out but thought I would wait until after xmas.


Have it on her doorstep Dec 26. You have no marriage at this point and the more ties you can disconnect at this point, the better off you all are.

You will always have a R with her but you are the one who decides how that R is going to be for you. You have the power.

You should read back on Clay's thread in Surviving the Big D. Screen name heartbrokeinsd

There are some similarities.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss