You are really moving forward, T. It must make your life more peaceful.

When/if you end up in one of those convos again, you could cut it off politely. Not that you wouldn't be willing to discuss but at a time and place that was more acceptable for you.

It's really hard to keep a convo like that on topic, so any time she veers off, bring her back to the topic and let her know everything else is off limits.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss