i'm just wodering here what is viewed as acceptible , in public, way to "nip in the bud" rude behavior. having been the unluicky recipient a few times in life- i always shy away from rude response or going toe to toe in public. it's awful for everyone around you-
sooo- really- what would thatlook like. i'm not being a wiseguy if you have a good tip for how to discreetly tell them to get stuffed - i'd like to kow. - when it happened i'm soooo surprised , and it's soo out of the blue- & embarassing-
i just act like it's not there- let world off the hook rather than have to feel their pity for me and loathing of him any more than it already is there.
strategy being sought- or actual words - i'm never "ready" or "up[ to" dealing with it in public
i even think the couple times he is totally uaware of what a giant jacka$$ he is making of himself and bet yhou five minutes out of the store he would deny he even was rude - possibly even be surpriosed-
self awareness seems to be out of the question . (well, i'm hearkening back to awhile ago- things have been smooth- bujt the memory is warm. i assume it may happen again any day- life waiting for other shoe to drop (mind or his)
