W still hasn't spoken to me since I moved back. She will answer text though.

I asked her if she was going to use the Christmas decorations in the living room. I told her I would like to buy a Christmas tree I would pay for completely myself if she agreed. If not and she wasn't going to use them then I would like to put them in the attic and clean the living room.

She hasn't responded yet. Not sure if I should have asked to do this. But I am trying to make my life as normal as possible and having a Christmas tree is always something I loved. Even if this Christmas is the worst out of 47. I at least want to give or allow myself some semblance of holiday spirit.

Knowing my W this is something that probably will upset her that is why I am not sure if I should have asked the question. On one hand, it could be considered an unproductive thing to do. On the other hand, It is me GAL back. Why am I conflicted?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014