W: Lol.....really?? You managed that big tree all on your own?
Why on earth did you not see that trap? That is as old as Eve!
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Me: I had help. W: Eh? Me: A friend did it for me.
Could you not have said, "I managed" or something else? You know when you say "a friend" that she is immediately going to assume the friend is female. And, that's just what she did!
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W: Yeah well your little girlfriend can just undo it. I want MY tree.
Wow! She has forgotten all about her two OM. She didn't see it the same way when she was the one with a friend.
As soon as she asked about how I got the tree up I had a feeling about what she was getting at. I feel no reason to throw it in her face or hide it. I would prefer she knew sooner than later as I believe whatever her reaction was going to be I would have to ride that wave.
It's a shame it xmas time. I will be dissapointed if I don't get to have xmas with the kids at all but I feel like like that part of me is so relaxed and accepting, sad but true. Fighting my way to my goal pushes me further away from it. She either cools off or doesn't and I will have to throw money at the solcitor.
I'm not surprised it has pi**ed her off as I was half expecting that. I didn't think it would be so much though considering her 2 OM.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
