She's using the kids to try and hurt you (AGAIN). In this case her trigger was OW, that disclosure clearly angered her.
At this point I would suggest sharing all that info with your solicitor and see what their advice is.
I have done some dating, but not when I have the kids. My W has had her OM around the kids and it really upset them because they still hold out hope for reconciliation, and so they see OM as the roadblock to that and they don't like him by default. Granted my kids are older than yours, but because of that I will not expose them to an OW until after D, and even then I think it'll be a long while before I do.
I am a lot more relaxed about it. As far as I see it the my new friend is just another person in my life until it is something else. The kids are young and I'm not going out of my way for expose them to it but I'm not holding back either. The kids are a large part of my life when I'm not at work and I'm trying to juggle my personal life and having them a lot of the time.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
