Feel like falling down

[mj0221]

Hi Willbell,
I feel your pain on H not paying attention to kids and it hurting them. I know the vets will chime in but in my own instance I wanted to be the one telling D11 the divorce was about to start because 1, I knew I could do it gently, and she could cry if needed then ask questions. 2, I have been the only one she's been with since the separation; however just my 2 cents I might only tell them when things start actually taking place. Maybe some vets could help out but I waited until H's attorney sent me papers and my attorney countered to tell D. I have read on here that some draw up papers but never file.

I'm sorry you are at this point. I'm in the same boat you are so i don't have all the answers.