Job, I don’t think you read my posting wrong. I also thought that there was some damage control in place, I just cannot imagine what it could be. I will follow your advice and wait.
On the H’s e-mail, don’t you think I should reply just to give him some positive reaction to see if continues to send me the e-mails not related to business? In any case I will sit on it before deciding if I need to reply.
Talked to my sister and my GF today and told them about the recent developments and tried to share my feelings with them. Both gave me a piece of their minds, telling me that I need cut the cord and stop talking and analyzing my sitch. My GF told me that I’m practicing “masochism” (she didn’t mean it in a sexual way) by still talking about my H and not taking a legal action for D. They both told me that I need to stop having any hopes and just move on with my life. So, I cried two times tonight, after each conversation. All I wanted is just to share and get some support. I didn’t want them to tell me what I need to do to stop all the feelings about my M. They both think that after I take a legal action, all my worries and hurts will stop and I will be a new shiny person. They both think that I’m a doormat allowing H to live his life and do whatever he wants by still keep me in limbo, which according to them I’m allowing. So, I’m on my own again. All I have is this site.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
