Sorry, but you dont have that kind of power - to be able to take hope from someone. No one does.
Found this recently.
Guilt is never caused by what happened. Guilt is something that we add later with the benefit of hindsight.
Go back to the moment you did whatever you did (or didnt do). At that moment, didn't you have a very particular state of mind and didn't you see life in a very particular way?
Now notice what would have happened if you knew then what you know today. Wouldn't you have acted in a very different way? Of course you would, but you didn't now then what you know today. You only knew what you knew.
Even if you knew that you shouldn't do what you did, your knowledge wasn't enough to change your actions, and you certainly didn't know the consequences like you do now.
So here is the big question: are you willing to forgive yourself for not knowing and for not being wiser and more aware? If you look, you were doing the very best you could with the very limited awareness and ability that you had at the time.
Forgive yourself for not being wiser and more aware. Forgive yourself for acting totally consistent with your limited ability and forgive yourself for any damage that may have been caused by your actions. Making mistakes is part of the human process. . So forgive yourself and allow yourself to be human.
