I have a couple of questions I need some feedback on. First, do I reply to this e-mail reminding me about the vacation in Spain and Portugal?
And the second will come after this. I think I did something stupid today. While I was waiting for the response to my posts on the board, I sent an e-mail to our mutual friends in vacation home (to a female friend) with one sentence “Why do I have a feeling that you guys are not telling me something?” This was inspired by the last phone conversation with my GF that I already described in one of my previous posts. I knew that there was a phone call from them to my H, but she behaved like she didn’t know anything about him driving down there. I found it very strange because they are best friends of H, he was driving there, they talked on the phone, so I found it to be hard to believe that he didn’t tell them he was going there. And now with the knowledge that he is driving his camper over there, it looked even more suspicious. I know I should not have e-mailed, but I could not resist.
Well, an hour later I get a phone call from them, and they are both on the line. The male friends asked me what I meant and what kind of info I thought they were not telling me. I tried to dismiss it as a joke and just mentioned that H was driving his camper, and that I was surprised that they didn’t know about it. They tried to assure me that there is nothing that they were hiding. It was a pretty weird conversation. The interesting part was that they were insisting that I come over there before or during the Christmas. I said that this is probably not going to happen, because H is going to be there. They told me that he is expected by the end for the week, but I still should come over and can stay with them. They were very persistent trying to persuade me to come over. I kept saying that it is not going to happen. They told me that will call me again tonight.
So, my second question is, should I send an e-mail to them trying to downplay what I sent to them today? I just don’t want them to make any assumptions about my state of mind.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state