Telling the kids about D. Feedback from those who have had this convo PlEASE...!!!!
Told h we should do together. We have had no convo about it yet.(when it is to take place) He is waiting for s17 to finish exams(FRI) They have done a ski trip annually after xmas. so don't know if this weekend or after trip.
Will tell the kids not what I want( they know this) but I love and respect dad enough that if this is what he feels he needs to do, then I will go along.
I don't want to be ugly or fight. I want h's happiness. My kids know I am strong and positive. Our kids know they are loved and this has nothing to do with them.
Gabby's mom, I appreciate your feedback. This sit has been hardest on son 20. He is hurt but struggles with not approving of his dad's behavior and not wanting to alienate his dad.
Who has told the kids?? advice?? Thanks in advance!!
PS, I never knew there were so many of us in this same sit!! Our society has got to wake up!!
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
