Thanks WR, the thing is, though I got it "intellectually" back then, and through a lot of this, I never "got" it emotionally, had the emotional empathy for what she might have felt.

I do now.

Thanks Mirage, though she is not my EXW yet, this story ain't done... smile

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm