Suckerpunch, the final thread

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What you said here, mimics my thoughts and feelings EXACTLY

IMHO we all have these thoughts from early on but they increase in numbers and strength as time goes by. The speed of this increase is individual. At some point we let go and continue the separate life or WAS comes back. I several sitch the WAS comes back after this point is reached – just look at AS example.

So once again – You stand until you stop and when you stop R might still happen! Who the heck knows what the future holds but DBing tell us not to ruin a good present by worrying about the future. Live your lifes as you see fit – the greatest love of your life could wait just around the corner or she could not

I think this is the path we all have to walk but as one of you posted on my thread very early on: This is a marathon and not a sprint

I have read about and discussed the 1y/1m issue with DB-coach. I do not see this as a result of some big research - it seems more like a hunch that MWD and her team has through their experience – IDK. AS, you have some months to this mark yet! SP, How long were you M?

SP – I also apologize for the hi-jack. I just find this issue interesting.

All the best!
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