So, I wanted to say to those new to this that you might see some varying stuff during the holidays.

You might see more anger, more resoluteness and more pulling away.

Sometimes some sadness is seen.

Whatever it is, your actions remain the same. Live your life, be positive and upbeat, and put no pressure.

It is especially important not to read into their actions at this time or it could get your spinning. Just accept that with some MLCers, the holidays affect their crisis.

So, try really hard to make the holidays fun. Enjoy your children and your family.

Dont put your life on hold. Make new memories, new traditions.

If your MLCers wants to be miserable - leave him to it.
Their choice, their problem. smile