Hey A, so I'm thinking that wasnt the best thing for you to say.
Here's the thing. When you acknowledge her in anyway, you give her credence and power. You make her important, when in reality, she is not.
I always tried to remember my road map. What I wanted to see when i looked back at this time. And I wanted to know that I acted with dignity and strength.
Whenever I was tempted to say something, I tried to remember that I was better than that.
She is a symptom of the crisis, a bandaid. Do not give her any more of your headspace or energy. You need to use that for you.
So, back on your path you go. I hope with a plan to keep those kinds of things to yourself. It doesnt serve any purpose either to you or the sitch, right?
