AJM,
Thank You! Just the type of responses I'm looking for. That really helps to think on and as far as D11 goes I think she would prefer to stay here also but would move if we had to. But I love how you answered that.

To answer you on my first marriage....I got married when I was 18, had d when I was 19. We did stay married for a good number of years. But ultimately we just married too young for us. We didn't use attorneys, did our own papers, he took what the set amount of child support was for our state and tripled it and was loyal with it from the day we signed. We got along as parents better than we did married and always have. We both remarried a little over a year after divorcing and got along great with each other's new families after we both had more kids.


M:40 H:42
M: 12yrs
BD: 2/1/13
H moved out: 2/22/13
D: 11
Divorce started 11/13