I wrote him a note the other day when I was doing the laundry and left it in the car.
Basically, "son and I are both wonderful... we deserve to have someone in our lives who is 100% committed to loving and caring for us." We don't deserve the pain you are putting us through, and you don't even seem to care. You may be right, that in the long run we are better off without you."
H needed to take son to store in the evening to get some candycanes for at school. Apparently H apologized to son for "Mom and Dad not getting along lately and for all the anxiety it's causing in the house."
So once again, "if we only got along" then H seems to think there wouldn't be any *anxiety* in the house. Like what 14 year old kid thinks its normal and okay for their Dad to sleep somewhere else at night? Even if we were getting along splendidly, son still understands the implications of one parent not living at home anymore. He is not that naive.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."