Groov, that is truly an awesome letter. Fantastic list of things to do 180's on, and it reveals a lot of soul searching. Now burn it or file it someplace secure for your own reference. Whatever you do, do not send it to your W. She's not ready to hear something like that, it would just make her roll her eyes at your "too little too late" clarity. Heck, she'd probably keep it as a checklist to remind herself of everything that's wrong with you. WAS's will use everything against you, it's just more ammo. And remember Sandi's rule 29:

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29. Know that if you can do 180's, your smallest CONSISTENT actions will be noticed much more than any words you can say or write.


Actions affect the WAS, not words.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57